The year is almost coming to an end. What where you able tp achieve in this year? Some will look for excuses to explain inaction, however do you know that other people where able to make a fortune this year? In the same year, others where making real estate acquisitions and building massive houses yet we are all under the same environment.
If there is anything you need to know about changing your life, is that you need to stop looking for excuses and get to look for reasons why you can make things happen.
Below are some of the reasons why some people never become wealthy and are always in one position.
It Never Occurs to Them
It never occurs to them that they can become wealthy. because of their upbringing and early conditioning, perhaps coming from from a place where no one has ever been wealthy, and associating with poor people, they never thought that they too could become wealthy, just as millions of other have done before them.
You can never manifest wealth that has never manifested in your mind. The way of thinking has to be change and also has to be correct.
They Never Decide To Do It
Many people wish, hope, dream and fantasize about how their lives would be different if they had a lot of money. they admire and envy people around them who are doing better than they are. They worry about money all the time, but they never make a firm do or die decision to become wealthy. As a result, they never even take the first step. They don’t learn wealth creation techniques. They don’t upgrade their knowledge and skills so that they become more valuable at their work. They make excuses and rationalize their situations by saying that success is only a matter of luck and they did not get any.
If it does occur to them and the decide to become wealthy they never get started. They procrastinate. They move to that fantasy place called “someday I’ll upgrade my knowledge and skills.” “Someday I’ll work harder and make myself more valuable.” “Someday I’ll get out of debt.” They end up living on “someday I’ll” for most of their lives. One of the great secrets of success is for you to vote for yourself off the island. stop making excuses and start making progress.
They Fear Failure
Because of destructive criticism in early childhood and mistakes they have made as adults, they are paralyzed by the fear of making a mistake, of losing their time or money. even if they are presented with an opportunity, they go into a form of paralysis.
Their fear of failure causes the to create all kinds of reasons not to take action. They don’t have the time and they cant make minimum investment.
They don’t have the necessary investment knowledge and skills. Like a deer caught in the headlights, they are paralyzed by the idea of failure which causes them to never take action at all. As it happens, most fortunes in America were started by the sale of personal services. The people had no money, but they had the ability to work hard, to upgrade their skills, and become more and more valuable. As a result, more and more doors of opportunities opened up for them.
The only way to succeed is through doubling your failure rate. failure means you’re doing something
They fear Critics and disapproval
Many think that if they set a goal to better themselves financially, the people around them will ridicule them and criticize them. They are afraid the those people will watch over their shoulders and gleefully point out all the mistakes they they make. Because they fear disapproval, of others so much they often attempt nothing at all.
Here’s the solution. when you decide to become wealthy, don’t seek anyone’s approval or don’t tell anyone. Keep it secret. Go to work on you own goal privately, and only tell people when they see they see you life is improving and ask you how you did it.
They Stop Learning And Growing
To achieve something, you’ve never achieved before, you must learn and practice something that you’ve never done before. The rungs on the ladder to financial success are knowledge and skill. to be financially successful starting from nothing, you’re going to have to learn, develop, and practice an entire series of new skills that will enable you to become valuable and even indispensable in your work. Abraham Lincoln once said, “I will study and prepare myself and some day, my chance will come.” When you study and prepare yourself, by some universal principle, you always get an opportunity to practice you new skills. But it is up to you to develop them in the first place and to continue to develop them throughout your life time.
Personal development is preceded through learning. You need to commit to learning.
They Lack Persistence
Most people don’t persist long enough to succeed. Successful people will tell you the major reason for their success was that they refused to quit. they refused to give up when the going was tough. They persisted over and over again, year after year, even in the face of complete bankruptcy and financial ruin. they never stopped. It is amazing how many people quit working just a few steps away from the key turning point in their lives, after which they would have been a big success.
Persistence and Determination are the ultimate guarantors that you will achieve all your financial goals.
In conclusion, wealth creation is not an accident, It is intentionally. you need to be intentional about it, and harness the discipline to stick to the decision until you achieve your goal.